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No: 1507

The Silent time Travellers
They don’t look like much.
No blinking lights. No gears that click into place. Just a stitched spine, a faint scent of paper, and silence. But open one, and time gives way.
Not in the loud, cinematic way we imagine time travel—no roaring portal or vanishing into mist. Books do it differently. They sit quietly on a shelf, waiting for someone to pause. To hold. To listen.
Some take you back a hundred years—not just in fact, but in feeling. A letter written in the margins. A peculiar turn of phrase that no one uses anymore. You find yourself not just reading history, but sitting beside it. Watching rain through a stone window. Feeling the cold of a drafty room where someone once wrote by candlelight.
Other books don’t move you backward, but inward. They remind you of who you were before the world got too loud. You meet your younger self, or the version of you that never quite found the words. And somehow, there they are—written by someone else, years ago, waiting.
We speak often of growth and forward motion, but books teach another kind of travel. One that’s not about escape, but arrival. Arrival into a stillness. Into empathy. Into the lives of people we’ll never meet, but somehow begin to understand.
In that way, books are not just time machines. They are vessels of memory. Of longing. Of what it means to be alive in more than one place, one season, one life.
And perhaps, in a world spinning ever faster, that’s what we need most:
Not more speed,
but something that remembers.
A Corner I never forget
There’s a corner in my mother’s house that time never touched.
The shelf leans, just slightly — not from neglect, but from years of quiet loyalty. Its wood has darkened, not with varnish, but with afternoons and evenings that passed slowly beside it. The books are older than my memory — jackets torn, margins scribbled upon, pages softened by use. Some carry the smudges of turmeric-stained fingers — as if she read them between stirring daal and tasting salt.
Beside the shelf rests a low table, humble and sure, holding an incense holder shaped like a leaf — its edges charred from careless reverence. Behind it, a window that welcomes light with restraint — warm gold in the mornings, a hush of blue by evening.
I remember standing there as a child, barefoot on the cold tiles, watching steam curl from the pressure cooker. She would hum — not for anyone, not for performance — just a song that kept her company. A sparrow would sometimes land on the sill, tilt its head, and listen too.
That corner never asked for attention. But it held everything that mattered.
Even now, when I return, the air there holds its own memory — of turmeric, old paper, and something older still.
I never sit. I only stand.
And in that stillness, everything that seemed urgent fades.
The wins, the losses, the long plans and louder ambitions — they don’t follow me into that quiet.
Only the scent of rice. The weight of stories.
And the echo of a mother’s song, rising softly above the simmering of life.
A Great Quote
“I crave a great silence like a home, a place to rest the bones of my thoughts. I want to sit in the shade of old things—of things that knew love before I arrived. To read, to remember, to forget. To breathe in the dust of those who stayed behind not because they had nowhere to go, but because they had found everything.”
— Pablo Neruda
Book Review: “The Year of Magical Thinking”
By Joan Didion
Joan Didion’s strength lies in restraint. She does not dramatize grief — she dissects it, almost surgically, and the very act of doing so makes it more poignant. This isn’t a tale of tears and breakdowns; it’s a cold, clear look at how the mind tries to protect the heart. There’s a quiet brilliance in her ability to capture the surreal fog that loss creates, without ever once needing to embellish.
The book is at its most powerful in the way it preserves the “ordinary instant.” A man has dinner with his wife. He dies. The chair remains, the table remains, but the world has shifted. She writes it just like that — and somehow, the reader feels the quake.
It also works because she tells the truth most people avoid: that grief isn’t a straight line, and healing doesn’t obey time. Didion doesn’t search for closure — she observes, she waits, she walks around her own mind with a flashlight, noting every shadow.
What Could Feel Lacking:
For some readers, especially those hoping for emotional catharsis or warmth, the book may feel distant. Didion’s prose, by nature, is cerebral — more analytical than emotive. There’s a cold edge to her observations, which might not offer the kind of comfort some seek from a memoir about loss.
There’s also repetition — intentional, but for some, it might feel circular. She returns to certain moments and phrases again and again, as if trying to make sense of them. For a certain kind of reader, this will feel deeply real; for others, it might come across as meandering.
Best Quote:
“Grief turns out to be a place none of us know until we reach it. We anticipate... but we do not look beyond the few days or weeks of its immediate pain. We do not expect its absence to be present. Its invisibility to be so heavy.”
This line captures the soul of the book. That grief is not just sorrow — it is the shape of a missing presence. It is the echo of a voice you keep turning toward. The invisibility of someone once deeply visible.
Verdict:
The Year of Magical Thinking is not a comforting book — but it is a truthful one. It speaks in a whisper, not a sermon. It lingers long after you’ve closed it, like the faint scent of someone who used to live in the room.
If you’ve ever lost someone — or feared losing someone — this book might feel like standing in a mirror and seeing both your reflection and your absence.
P.S.: If this brought you calm, pass it on to someone who’d enjoy the silence too.
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